Re: One profile page to rule them all
Ultimately I’m back to where I began. I want to continue using the WP top bar but have the edit account option link to bbPress’s account page.
No, I am not aware a way to easily keep the admin bar but filter the user link so that it goes to the bbPress profile page instead of your wp-admin user.
Something like this would need to be a custom plugin.
I mentioned various things you can do, without touching virtually any code, that would help keep users from hitting /wp-admin – unfortunately hacking the admin-bar is not one of those things.