[chrishajer]

Really, it’s not that big a deal. It’s your forum, you can do what you want with it. Train your members now so you have less to worry about in the future.

I would just post a message after their post and tell them to post their reply in the correct place. After that, delete the errant posts, including yours. I don’t think it’s a big deal.

Regarding adding the feature to a future release, this ticket is from 3 years ago:

https://trac.bbpress.org/ticket/584