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This is what you want for the above:
function hide_forum_counts() {
$args['show_topic_count'] = false;
$args['show_reply_count'] = false;
$args['separator'] = ' ';
return $args;
}
add_filter('bbp_before_list_forums_parse_args', 'hide_forum_counts' );
A full example of all the bbp_list_forums arguments to use either in a custom function or a plugin https://gist.github.com/ntwb/3797945